Sunday, February 22, 2009

Discover What a Pioneering American Psychologist & Philosopher Can Teach You About Attracting Women

Sunday, February 22, 2009
Although you might not realize it yet, when it comes to attracting women, your ability to do so is influenced greatly by your attitude and at times your willingness to do those things in which you might not be too comfortable in doing. As one of my amazing Yoga instructors likes to say can you be comfortable with the "dis-ease" of life.

However, while that is indeed a very good question to ask yourself in this article we will be focusing on the words of William James who was a Pioneering American psychologist and philosopher.

""It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult task which, more than anything else, will affect it's successful outcome."-William James

How do these words apply to you when it comes to attracting women?

For the most part, when you know how to attract women you fully understand that it is a relatively simple task to do so, however, when you aren't having the kind of success that you like with women it is usually because you find a particular task that you either must or believe that you must do rather difficult.

For most men this task is the ability to accept the fact that any interaction that you have with a woman may ultimately end in someone rejecting someone with that someone quite possibly being you. Men, who approach this task with a positive or at least an accepting attitude, will find that it becomes easier to deal with and more importantly can lead to some amazing experiences with women.

Yet, men who choose to either attempt to avoid the task of accepting the possibility of rejection or face the task begrudgingly will find it more and more difficult to do so each and every time. The good news is that once you accept this task you might begin to realize that many of the places that you are currently going in order to attract women (i.e. online dating, bars and clubs) aren't necessary once you fully accept and approach the task as you must.

In fact, what you will discover is that you can create and begin living the kind of life that you truly want and as what may seem to be a side effect you will begin to naturally attract the kind of women that you want.

In the end, the choice is yours continue to look for ways to avoid rejection and wait to get lucky with women or accept the task at hand and begin living the kind of life that you want and find that women are naturally attracted to you now.

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