This newsletter was written by David Van Arrick, a physical
intimacy expert. So without further ado, David:
Hello my care free and courageous connoisseurs
of creative kissing and countless carnal pleasures,
Tis I! Your buddy, the one and only David Van Arrick!
I'm back to share some more outstanding insights
into the world of all things erotic, carnal and
ultimately orgasmic.
Now the interesting thing you will discover as we
journey together on the forbidden path to true sexual
mastery is that the path itself has many seemingly
unrelated tangents and offshoots -- twists and turns
that sometimes seem to have no direct relation to the
forbidden arts of sexual mastery as most folks would
understand them but have faith and pay attention
because the connections often become excitingly
immediately apparent as time goes on...
However...
Today's installment is not one of those cases!
In fact far from being obscure this particular post
concerns one of my very favorite topics --- Kissing!
If your kissing game sucks, you're probably not going
to get any further in the course of making love to a
woman because many many women judge how good a lover
you are by the way you kiss her the very first time.
Although many women are more than willing to kiss you
a second time in the hopes you just had an off moment,
the bottom line is if your kiss can't make her toes
curl, buckle her knees and have her heart pounding
and racing in her chest like a hyper-active jackhammer,
your probably going to find yourself immediately shoved
into the "love-dud" category or the Joe-average lover
slot to say the least.
That's not a good place to be, believe me.
Well I don't know about you but I don't accept mediocrity
in my life in any way, and especially not in my sexual
and romantic skills and neither should you.
Now for today's question...
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You write: "When you go in for the kiss, cup her face in
both of your hands so that your palms are gently cradling
her jaw line and your thumbs are just in front of cheek
bones."
This seems really awkward, Normally, I like to move in
with my mouth then slowly get my hands involved. ( I
don't mean feel her up, I mean more along the lines of
what you describe -- I just introduce it later in the
process). How do I go about your way without it being
really awkward?
Thanks,
Cahn
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Dear Cahn,
Well I think we understood you weren't going to feel her
up right on the initial kiss but thanks for the
clarification none the less.
First of all I'm not sure exactly what you mean when you
say you feel awkward. But from what you do say it appears
that the order in which you bring your hands into play
lies at the root of that awkwardness.
The simplest way is when your ready to go in for her
first kiss...
Look her deeply in the eyes, allow your hands to slowly
but gently touch the side of her cheek you can use one
or both hands.
I find for first kisses the two hand approach works much
better. Cup the back of her head or contour her jaw line
with the palm of your hand.
Your thumb can rest either just in front of the ear or
on the cheekbone just below her eye or any point in
between. While maintaining eye contact, gently draw her
lips to yours. Allow your eyes to close as your lips
gently touch.
That's the quick lesson.
For First kisses, I always use my palms to face technique.
Why?
Because It Just Plain Works More Reliably Powerfully and
Consistently Than Any Other Method of First Kissing I Have
Tried!
I discovered many years ago that when you really want to
get a woman's romantic desires clicked into over drive
the fastest way to do it is by touching her anywhere on
her face while your kissing her.
Now pay attention here folks.
Notice I did not say her sexual drives!
Understand that kissing certain areas of her body will
signal her to become romantically turned on, and
consistently more passionate, while others will actually
stimulate and accelerate her sexual drives and desires.
The first thing you want to do with any woman, (at least
in the world of David) is get her romantic muscles flexing
and her passions enflamed... Why?
Because her sexual drives inevitably follow her romantic
drives!
Guys this is important...
If you can't create that physical/emotional connection or
chemistry necessary to turn her emotional sparks into a
roaring flame, your likely to throw too much fuel on the
fire to fast. The result...
All progress stops and the fire goes out!
Have you ever tried to fan a small flame in order to make
it grow and accidently blew it out?
In your effort to feed it more oxygen you actually gave it
too much fuel too fast and poof!
Out goes the flame!
That's what I'm talking about when it comes to enflaming
a woman's passions.
Your kiss creates the tiny flame i.e. the connection
(everything is clicking for her inside) the touch on the
face adds just enough fuel at just the right pace to cause
that romantic spark to grow into a passionate flame.
Once the passion fire is really burning, if you know where
to go you can actually transition to other parts of her
body that acts as sexual accelerators, which means that
you are actually transitioning her from a predominantly
emotional sense of arousal to equally physical sensation
of arousal.
You see the key to mind blowing sex is not how big your
penis is or how good looking you are or even how long you
can last in the sack...
The key is... How Deeply Aroused You Can Get Her!
You will discover that the root of many of the obstacles
you will face in your journey to sexual mastery will
ultimately come down to this one simple element --
Lack of Sexual Arousal!
The more aroused your partner becomes the more receptive
she is to all manner of sexual acts, stimulations, and
intensities!
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For all of you who wrote in with some really great
questions be on the look out for more answers and
awe inspiring techniques and concepts that will turn
you from Joe average lover into a sexual superstar
practically overnight.
All the Best!
David Van Arrick
New York City
NY 10010
United States
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